The Secret Sauce!

It took me a couple of decades but I think I’ve finally found the secret sauce to a good life, you ready?

After learning what it’s like to lose your parent tragically at nine years old. After almost dying from anorexia and bulimia in my twenties. After dropping EVERYTHING and moving across the country with a little white Lhasa named Louis and a HUGE overpriced handbag. After having my photos sold, resold, cat-fished and lied upon. After having 2 million and negative $2 dollars in my bank account.

 

After being engaged three times and leaving each situation with literally nothing. After going through two miscarriages alone. After being physically and creatively robbed about 2000 plus times. After standing up to a real life stalker and then later in life a cyber stalker…Here is my massive epiphany and it has nothing to do with coming to the realization that I’ll never have thin thighs and always have an extremely awkward waist to hip ratio. It does however have a lot to do with this!

After being judged for being

Too tall

Too thin

Too fat

Too conceited

Too insecure

Too pretty

Too ugly

Too intelligent

Too ignorant

Too happy

Too sad

Too clingy

Too aloof

Too creative

Too complacent

Too much of a hermit

Too decisive

Too indecisive

Too lazy

Too work focused

Too in shape

Too out of shape

Too spoiled

Too poor

Too rich

Too cocky

Too modest

Too closed off

Too open

Too self assertive

Too opinionated

Too haughty

Too proud

Too difficult (a personal favorite)

Too strong (second fav)

Too independent

Too quiet

Too loud

My huge epiphany is you will always be too much for someone and too little for someone else. The secret sauce recipe is to LEARN to tell them all to go fuck themselves and live your life according to how you see is best for you. This also means to learn to use the word fuck when writing without being afraid of what people will think:)!

I love you

Please love yourself and check out my latest video about “How to Deal with Difficult Situations”.

 

Free from judgement, free from cyber stalkers, free from creativity thieves… free to be me and free to love!