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Sexuality and Ascension

How do you see sex? I see sex as sacred. If you don’t see sex as sacred, I encourage you to read this article.

The normalization of random sexual behaviors has become more and more prevalent in recent months and years. It’s a fact that 3 million Americans contract the herpes virus every year.

As a high vibrating woman, I take sex very seriously. This doesn’t mean that I don’t practice tantra, engage in hot yoga and take stellar care of my body. This means that I can count on one hand how many partners I have been intimate with within my lifetime. And I am very proud of this.

Many people I know have 20 to 30 partners by the time they’re 25 years old along with a couple of kids and unfortunately an STD to boot.

Do I sound prudish? Read on…

FACT: Sex is the preferred method of creating a powerful toxic link for psychic feeding.

I also believe in a common theory referred to as Telegony. This was a theory of heredity holding that offspring can inherit the characteristics of a previous mate of the female parent; thus the child of a woman might partake of traits of a previous sexual partner. You can learn more about telegony in this article here.

Another common belief is the confusion within the mind space that is constantly wavering in your decision making whether it be about what relationship partner you need or what life choices you need to make. If you find yourself having trouble making decisions, from what to wear to who to be with, you’ve probably had more than one sexual partner over the past several months to a year.

Spreading yourself so thin that you are carrying the DNA of not only all of the people you have slept with within the last seven years but also all of the partners they have slept with.

I love Sex! Absolutely adore it! But the type of sex I prefer is responsible and full of committed love. What I don’t love is drama and messiness. The bottom line is sharing intimacy with multiple partners is the quickest way to derail you off of your goals.

It’s all about RESPECT!

Casual sex is not based on mutual respect, understanding, love, or deep third eye connection. In fact, sex is an open door to many demonic forces entering a woman’s sacred womb. Sex should be an enjoyable participation of two people connecting on a deep high vibrational energetic third eye  level.

Sex should be enjoyable but mindfulness should be at the forefront of every human’s thought process before engaging in intercourse with another life force. Participating in loose sexual behaviors can literally destroy one’s mental, physical, and energetic health. Whether we want to admit it or not, our spiritual potential and intuition can be greatly affected after engaging intimately with the wrong person.

For me, great sex is with a person I know deeply and love. When this type of sacred union is formed, lower forms of sexuality become sloppy and eventually repulsive.

Setting healthy boundaries while finding and addressing both our past life and childhood traumas are a must on the path towards elevating into the 5D.

Once we awaken to the fact that our unconscious reactions are nothing more than past life traumas or an open overspilling childhood wound, we will evolve to new heights.

Developing the capacity for highly evolved skills of discernment within the realm of relationships is of extraordinary importance. One cannot sage or Palo Santo away a venereal disease. Just as we cannot drench ourselves in essential oils to heal a wounded heart-space.

If we have not addressed our own “hidden agendas” (“getting laid, quick pleasure, money, conquering the next piece of ass) our unconscious triggers will stand front and center! Controlling our every move.

I don’t know what all of you are experiencing lately. Both my clients and I are feeling the need to practice mindfulness. Now more than ever we must be open to outside observation along with self-observation.

Many people do not have a clear sense of what is really going on in their surroundings. Especially with the way the world is currently situated ~ this can be a time of great evolution or, of great downfall. Within the world and within one’s own personal life.

Sex is one of the easiest ways that narcissists and entities can attempt to miss use our precious energy.

I do not see a man who boasts about the notches in his bedpost as a captain, leader, or king. Nor do I see a woman who is “easy” or needs to pick up a prescription for birth control because she never knows when she’s going to meet someone and “get laid” like a queen.

Again, Sex is a sacred union between two people that is holy. And if you feel the need to chase it you have a lot of work to do.

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Men feel too!

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So many women stepping into their power

Many of us were pushed

We make our own money

Care and nurture those in our lives

We keep our bodies up to par
Care for our pets and our children
Some of us are Earth mothers giving advice to many
We take care of our homes
Our gardens

But we women have become protectors of our hearts. Many of us have hardened ourselves to not allow our beautiful men in. We are wounded And what we so often forget is that our beautiful masculine men are wounded too!

But where does this leave our beautiful masculine men? Feeling As though they are not needed:( Not desired and heaven forbid as though they are not loved.

I’m sending energy from my heart to all the men in the world reminding you that

YES, YOU ARE NEEDED

YOU ARE WORTHY

YOU ARE LOVED

The Top Three Questions to Ask as you enter into a Relationship!

Being with the right partner really does yield abundance in more ways than one! That being said, being with the wrong partner can do mega damage! Especially to your heart!

Ah, LOVE! We all love “love”… don’t we? But how well do you really know that person you are jumping into a relationship (or even into bed with)? I’m about to share with you the importance of doing the research & ASKING THE PROPER QUESTIONS!

Lets get started…shall we?

Do they have a broke mentality? If so this will in fact affect your finances too!

Do they partake in negative self talk? Or even worse, are they verbally abusive? This will greatly affect your daily peace & your ability to prosper!

How do they conduct themselves in business? Are they on the up and up in their daily interactions with employees, business partners,  taxes etc?

If something doesn’t feel right, investigate! Do what you must to protect yourself! This is your heart we are talking about! No amount of money can repair it! Our personal relationships have A LOT to do with our physical and mental health! Don’t settle for less than you deserve!

  1. If they have been married, are they actually divorced? The shocking amount of people who never go through the divorce process is astounding! Do the research!
  2. Do they have any legal actions against them? Judgements such as evictions, bankruptcy or liens? What about lawsuits? Again, research!
  3. How faithful are they? This is your heart we are dealing with! If you feel in any way that something is off, try to have an open discussion with them! If they refuse to have a calm sit down discussion with you or, even worse… if they say “you’re crazy”, know this is a HUGE RED FLAG and all relationship contracts are off!

I hope this article helps even one of you! Relationships are a HUGE part of our mental and physical health! Here is an article I wrote for the Huffington post on why men need to detox after a break up! https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/8-reasons-men-need-a-detox-from-dating-after-a-breakup_us_56412d4fe4b0b24aee4b8cf9

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I didn’t always “LOVE LOVE”!

At least not other people’s love that is!

I was sad

I was lonely

I missed being in a relationship 😦

I remember seeing couples walking hand and hand and thinking “that may never be me again”. I can recall crying myself to sleep at night! Then, I woke up, I became strong again and most importantly, I began enjoying my life as a SINGLE VIBRANT WOMAN!  That my friends is what must be done in order to attract your twin flame as I have!

I can remember talking to a male friend of mine on the phone and hearing him say “you have to meet my friend”! I belted out a quick “NO WAY”! About a month later, I caved and decided to meet William. I’m so happy I did!

Two years ago Will & I first met after talking on the phone for a month❤️

Two years ago this man walked into my home spilling dog treats all over the floor. He was carrying the most beautiful purple & white orchid & I’m almost certain he had chocolates too!

We had spoken on the phone every night for over a month. He later informed me he hated that time and loathes the phone! He suffered through it however!

We cancelled our plans that night and spent the evening eye to eye on my couch.

His jeans were far too tight!
He was way too “stylish” for this Ohio girl!
He was quirky with his sexy glasses 👓!
He said EXTREMELY inappropriate things FAR to soon!

Somehow, I woke the next morning wanting to know more of him! I craved his words, his goofy nature, his deep voice and his intoxicatingly addicting laugh! I craved the conversation that left me feeling exhausted with emotions I didn’t know I had in me or had buried long ago. n2

We’ve gone through more in two years than most experience in a lifetime. I ❤️ him to the moon & back! After two failed relationships, this my friends is something I thought I would never have again!

Happy Anniversary to us! n3

I made the man-pan-ion a healthy salad before our date tonight❤️

We then headed out for some AMAZING vegan gelato in Mission Hills!

So is it all roses and butterflies? Of course not!

We argue, we disagree heck we even shout on occasion!

I think the thing that keeps us together is the fact that we both are willing to try. We also have a loyalty and a trust that we are both working at building more and more with each passing day!

I love William’s quirky, strange humor! I love his sense of style and the fact that he is a wonderful father to his son. What I love most however is that when you peel back his layers of being the tough business man, the jokester and the provider, he has a HUGE heart that loves animals and all people.

2017 We are ready for you! 

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I think the best advice I can give to those of you who are “looking” for love is to STOP! Focus instead on being the very BEST version of YOU!

The last thing you want to do is wait around for someone to make you happy! You and only you are in charge of your happiness!

Namaste and blessings!  Andrea


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The most important tools you need today….

Good Morning:) I’m not an astrologer would never claim to be. I am however constantly aware at all times of where the moon, stars & sun are & how they align with one another. I’m not saying that “because I’m a Pisces I’m extra intuitive”. I am saying because of my clean lifestyle & the food that I intake and choose not to intake, I’m ultra sensitive to these things. 
Today is an astronomically important day for all of us! It is the seventh day of the lunar eclipse! The fifteenth day of April! Those of you who love to write like myself, who compose poetry who are singers or highly creative will find this day to be a joyous one indeed! It will be a day of letting go for many of you & a day of extreme bodily energy! I suggest you channel this energy into going to the gym or by taking a yoga class! Take advantage of this energy you have in your body today may be the only day you have it for quite some time! You will create & write like never before! Take full advantage of this as well! 
Those of you who are more business oriented types may want to avoid all types of contracts, especially real estate contracts today. If you don’t avoid them you will undoubtedly live to regret it.

Many become ultra sensitive on day 7. This is normal. Try not to avoid emotional interaction however, especially with those whom you love! Everyone needs support today even those who don’t seem to be sensitive to energy on this special day. The important thing to remember on day seven of the lunar eclipse is that everything you say think & pray for will come into fruition! Be mindful of the words you speak & the prayers you say today! They will materialize over the next few months in some or in all of their capacity! Today is not a day to gossip about your mother-in-law or to speak ill of anyone! Send love from within the deepest part of your heart to anyone you may have had a falling falling out with. They Will feel it, receive & may even respond in some capacity! Treat every text message, email, face-to-face meeting with everyone you see today as if it were the last time you would ever see them again! Today is a very special day and I’m wishing all of you the very best in luck, love & in the discoveries you find that have been inside of you all along! I’m sending you SO MUCH LOVE! 

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If you find you are having difficulties today, I encourage you to say this mantra I created to release old stuck energy! Remember, “Our issues live in our tissues”!

Your mantra today! Today I let go of any pain, regret and anger from anytime I’ve ever felt “wronged” in life. I know that these moments were moments of learning, growth and of discovering a strength I never knew was within me. Today I let go, I breathe, I do yoga and I meditate the negative energy out of my body while embracing the positive energy of the days, months and years to come!

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Wishing you the most beautiful day ever! Love you!

If you are reading this and know someone that can potentially benefit from this, please SHARE this! They will be thankful and so will I!:)


Andrea L Cox is the owner of The Healthy Haven & http://www.alkalizewithandrea.com (Detox, Yoga, Juice fast & Raw Food Educational Retreats!) She is known as “The Detox Queen” and is a woman who walks her talk!

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Andrea is a fitness model turned health coach who has written two books on the raw vegan healthy detoxing lifestyle! Known as “The Detox Queen” She has taken the media by storm & has an impressive social media following with her YouTube channel surpassing 2 million views & her personal Facebook page alone having 20,000 people!

Andrea has appeared on numerous news stations TV shows and magazine publications in her hometown of Dayton Ohio and now where she lives in San Diego! She has also had national media coverage! Her retreats have become a destination health vacation for several Hollywood celebrities!

Andrea’s online detox programs may be found at www.thehealthyhaven.net

Andrea’s retreats can be found at www.alkalizewithandrea.com

I WANT TO CONNECT WITH YOU! Find me at the following Social Media Links!

TWITTER HERE –> https://twitter.com/RAWChefAndrea

INSTAGRAM HERE –> https://www.instagram.com/rawchefandrea/

FACE BOOK FAN PAGE HERE –> https://www.facebook.com/andrea.l.cox2

YOUTUBE HERE –>  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCninCDtTdPxxEL64dbCya8A

MY RETREATS HERE –> http://www.AlkalizewithAndrea.com

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Tumbler ~ http://rawchefandrea-thedetoxqueen.tumblr.com

Abandonment Series ~ Self Love Sunday!

Hi Lovley!

Tonight I want to share something with you that I shared this afternoon on my social media. Within minutes it had over 200 likes and 100 comments NOT from men liking this photo. FROM WOMEN who resonated with my words below!

What I’m about to share comes from a very vulnerable place that I don’t like to step into unless I’m feeling EXTREME support & love! Every woman and man need that. It is rare these days to see a couple who reciprocate that to one another. Enjoy my indirect yet direct depiction of my abandonment issues in play! It is part one of a seven-day series I’m doing this week all about abandonment & self-love!

Yesterday was my birthday & although I would LOVE to share with all of you that it was sunshine and rainbows with unicorns jumping over invisible fences, it was not. It was a sad day for me and one of distress. I’ve not been to bed yet and quite honestly it’s now after 5pm and I’m so exhausted that I can barely keep my eyes open. However, Just as I knew I would, I went through the day full throttle without napping. My BIG A type personality! 🙂

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I’ve struggled with my abandonment issues for so many years that when those feelings come on I don’t even realize it. At times I can be the strongest woman in the world and at other times I can literally be groveling on my hands and knees in tears. Some may say that’s crazy and others may say that it’s “just being a woman”. I say, it’s me, Living from a place of desperately not wanting to think about when the world is gone and done and there’s nothing but dust & dirt on this earth. Then, I’ll be forced to face my greatest fear. Once no one is left here, I won’t be able to find you again……
I won’t be able to touch you again or run my fingers through your hair and smell your scent on my nightshirt the next morning. This is why I go from powerful to weak! This is how I go from a woman to a little girl! This is why I kick and scream, push and pull, stay then leave. This is how I know I love you.

Thank you for all of the beautiful birthday wishes yesterday and today they touched my heart. If you are reading this and know someone that can potentially benefit from this, PLEASE SHARE on your social media! They will be thankful and so will I!:)

Below a little self-esteem video boost for the ladies tonight!

Remember to always Love Yourself!


Andrea L Cox is the owner of  The Healthy Haven & www.alkalizewithandrea.com   (Detox, Yoga, Juice fast & Raw Food Educational Retreats!)

Andrea is a fitness model turned health coach who has written two books on the raw vegan healthy detoxing lifestyle! Known as “The Detox Queen” She has taken the media by storm & has an impressive social media following with her YouTube channel surpassing 2 million views & her personal Facebook page alone having 20,000 people! 

Andrea has appeared on numerous news stations TV shows and magazine publications in her hometown of Dayton Ohio and now where she lives in San Diego! She has also had national media coverage! Her retreats have become a destination health vacation for several Hollywood celebrities! 

Andrea’s online detox programs may be found at www.thehealthyhaven.net 

Andrea’s retreats can be found at www.alkalizewithandrea.com 

If you’ve not checked out Andrea’s Facebook, YouTube, Instagram or Twitter yet FOLLOW her below!!! She would love to see you there! 

I want to connect with you!

Find me on

TWITTER HERE –> https://twitter.com/RAWChefAndrea

INSTAGRAM HERE –> https://www.instagram.com/rawchefandrea/ 

FACE BOOK FAN PAGE HERE –> https://www.facebook.com/andrea.l.cox2

YOUTUBE HERE –>  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCninCDtTdPxxEL64dbCya8A

MY RETREATS HERE –> www.AlkalizewithAndrea.com

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Lessons I’ve learned that led me to True Love!

V-DAY1Today is Valentines Day & I know that many of you don’t have a valentine. Some of you may have even lost that one special person you thought you would spend forever with. So before I go into what I love about my Best Friend & lover, I thought I would share something with all of you that I’ve never shared before.

Nine years ago a ten year relationship I was in came to an end. Like many, we had grown apart. I had met this man when I was seventeen years old. He was older, extremely intelligent and “safe”. I had never witnessed a solid long lasting marriage or courtship. My parents were divorced when I was just three years old. My father had passed in a car accident when I was ten. Quite honestly, I expected every man that entered my life to disappear sooner or later. This man did not! The ten years I spent with him was very steady, we became engaged to be married & even moved to a different city where we built a home. For some reason, I knew it wasn’t meant to be.

After leaving him I spent the next seven years of my life single & celibate. It wasn’t a conscious choice I made, in fact I dated quite a bit. I just wanted to keep myself “pure” for the man I would meet and one day marry. Many of you may ask, why I’m sharing this with you, why am I speaking about a relationship from nine years ago? Am I living in the past? Not at all however sometimes we must revisit the past to see how far we have come. Those going through a struggle today may benefit from our past pain.

Being an empath, I woke this morning FEELING pain for those of you who are hurting & alone. What I’m about to say is for all of you! There were many nights I cried myself to sleep. There were many times I questioned my decision of leaving. There were many times when I would become angry with God asking him why was I alone? I promise you that these feelings are not only natural, they are good for you! There is a divine plan for each and every one of you & I assure you no matter what you’re going through & no matter how tough the struggle feels today there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Today I woke next to the love of my life! We are in LA & in “William style” he picked a sheik hotel where we were sure to wake to an incredible city view! He gave me his signature back & shoulder massage & I rubbed my hands through his thick curls! After a year, he knows exactly what I need in every moment & I know how to serve him like the strong yet vulnerable man he is. This is not to say that every day is a picnic, its just to say that we are finding our rhythm. I would not trade a single argument, misunderstanding or squabble in our relationship. It has made our bond stronger & taken our connection to a deeper place.

I have found my soul mate, my twin flame, my best friend & my companion inside the heart of my “man~pan~ion”. Never in my life have I had a man show up for me in every way that I desire. Today, I honor him for the strong yet vulnerable loving caring soul he is.

Sending each & every one of you SO much love!


 

7 Healthy Habits That Lead To a GREAT Sex Life!

The Best Christmas Gift Ever!

Hi Beautiful!

Today I found out that I’ve been published in The Huffington Post. The article I wrote came out a few weeks ago & I didn’t even know due to being so busy!

As an artist, writer & detox expert, this is HUGE for me! I’m incredibly grateful for my boyfriend who reads The Huffington Post everyday. He turned me onto them. That gave me the drive to want to be published there!

 Good things happen to good people who work hard! I would have never thought ten years ago in the midst of my eating disorder that I would be  living out my dreams in so many ways! This is a very proud moment for me! 

You can read the article here –> click here I would be humbled with gratitude if you shared the article on your social media!

I’m feeling that this will be the brightest Christmas will be the BRIGHTEST Christmas yet!  I hope you have a very merry Christmas too! Merry Christmas


Andrea L Cox is the owner of  The Healthy Haven & www.alkalizewithandrea.com  (Detox, Yoga, Juice fast & Raw Food Educational Retreats!)

Andrea is a fitness model turned health coach & author who has written two books on the raw vegan healthy detoxing lifestyle! Known as “The Detox Queen” She has taken the media by storm & has an impressive social media following with her YouTube channel surpassing 2 million views & her personal Facebook page alone having 20,000 people! 

Andrea’s articles on detox, health, raw food, juicing and relationships have been published by Body Mind Green, The Huffington Post, The Good Men Project, Fashion 5 point 0 and several other publications!

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 Andrea has appeared on numerous news stations TV shows and magazine publications in her home town of Dayton Ohio and now where she lives in San Diego! She has also had national media coverage! Her retreats have become a destination health vacation for several Hollywood celebrities! 

Andrea’s online detox programs may be found at www.thehealthyhaven.net

Andrea’s retreats can be found at www.alkalizewithandrea.com

If you’ve not checked out Andrea’s Facebook, YouTube, Instagram or Twitter yet FOLLOW her below!!! She would love to see you there! 

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Your weekly mojo!

YES YOU CAN!

I’m crying this morning as I write this! If I get nothing across in this I want to just say “follow your passion & calling in life”! The photo you see here is of a box I just opened from when I moved to California six years ago to the day! The box read do not open until December 14th 2015! In the box there are 5 newspaper articles written on me & the book I wrote about healing through this raw/detox lifestyle!

I found a sign up sheet for the first raw food class I’d ever given with 48 people on it. Keep in mind I lived in Ohio in a small town! When you said raw food people thought you meant sushi! This box also contained flyers for an organic co-op I ran for 2 years out of my garage! I had 7 farmers that would deliver to me weekly and I would divide the produce into boxes. People would come pick up organic in season produce out of my garage! In Dayton Ohio organic produce at the time was scarce & I knew the value of eating organic food.

What I found tear jerking was that on top, the only laminated article was of a woman with no legs who was an athlete. Reading that article inspired me to run my first marathon in 2009. On the top of the box it simply red “YES, YOU CAN! Don’t open until December 14th – 2015:)”

I would say I have quite the entrepreneurial spirit. I’ll also say I have a fabulous family who supported me emotionally even though they didn’t know what the hell I was doing smile emoticon God however has really been driving this! I knew I was on the right track because I was doing what I LOVED & it felt good!

Never has this felt like work once! To this day I love what I do! I love helping people with degenerative diseases feel better. I love helping men and women lose 20 30 50lbs! I love helping women who are struggling with hormonal issues, their hair falling out and all kinds of body issues feel better! Most of all I love helping the young women & men who have struggled with eating disorders find their path onto eating delicious nutritious healthy REAL food!

This is my calling in life! Yes~ I had to go through several trials and tribulations including a terrible eating disorder to get to this point. You know what, I wouldn’t change it for the world!

The lesson? NEVER give up on YOUR dreams! I went from people telling me I was absolutely crazy to having a YouTube channel that has surpassed two million views a social media following in the millions and now I’m working on my third book. So make your “YES YOU CAN” box TODAY! Because I’m here to tell you, YOU CAN do anything your heart leads you to!


This past weekend in Mexico!

Couples who get pedicures might stay together. Couples who get flesh eating fish pedicures will definitely make it through the rough spots! ‪#‎fishy‬‪ #‎pedicures‬ ‪#‎mexico‬
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 The “man~pan~ion” took me to see some beautiful ocean front properties. Fitting for romance or a few million detoxing guests to come through:) It’s good to dream! -)



YOUR WEEKLY MOJO! Opportunities are like sunsets. If you wait too long, you miss them!
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IT’S MONDAY!
Get up~Get moving~hydrate and NEVER let go of your dreams! Not at 24 or 104! I believe in you! You’ve got this! Hey…would y’all do me ONE favor?

Would you grab the vegetables at the market today to start juicing? Even if you’ve never juiced before or just gave it up. PLEASE know that it’s like having a blood transfusion of nutrients to your body! Remember today is the first day of the rest of your life!


Weekly Health Tip!
I just shared a GREAT video on my YouTube channel here -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-VlJXGUsop4 


This weeks recipe!

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On my way to Mexico I decided to create this scrumptious meal! Can someone say Barbecued jackfruit salad? My latest creation for my new book Sexy on Salads! Enjoy your weekend everyone and love someone.♡♡♡

Here is how to make it below

12oz of young green jackfruit
2 cloves garlic, smashed
1 tablespoon olive oil
Salt
1/2 cup + extra BBQ sauce, bottled or homemade (NOTE: I make my own and just shot a YouTube video on it that will be out next week!)

Place on a bed of greens and sprouts or you could even put on a gluten-free bread or bun! YUMMINESS!


 

Andrea L Cox is the owner of  The Healthy Haven & www.alkalizewithandrea.com  (Detox, Yoga, Juice fast & Raw Food Educational Retreats!)

Andrea is a fitness model turned health coach who has written two books on the raw vegan healthy detoxing lifestyle! Known as “The Detox Queen” She has taken the media by storm & has an impressive social media following with her YouTube channel surpassing 2 million views & her personal Facebook page alone having 20,000 people! beachy hair

 Andrea has appeared on numerous news stations TV shows and magazine publications in her home town of Dayton Ohio and now where she lives in San Diego! She has also had national media coverage! Her retreats have become a destination health vacation for several Hollywood celebrities! 

Andrea’s online detox programs may be found at www.thehealthyhaven.net

Andrea’s retreats can be found at www.alkalizewithandrea.com

If you’ve not checked out Andrea’s Facebook, YouTube, Instagram or Twitter yet FOLLOW her below!!! She would love to see you there! 

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Twitter click here

YouTube click here

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I’m also about to send out a fabulous news letter! You can sign up for it here -> www.thehealthyhaven.net

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